Bill's Notes

Men taking wives' last names
A former colleague of mine took his wife's last name after getting married. I googled the internets to see if this was some kind of trend. Apparently, a few other guys have done it — enough for a few feature stories on it. Smash the patriarchy and all that.

I feel weird talking about him behind his back. So I'm not gonna. I'm just gonna ask: Have you heard of this? Know anyone who's done it? Thoughts? Observations?

Me neither
Chris, our host, wrote in a recent comment, "When I was young, I wondered what it was like during the fall of the roman empire. I don't really wonder that much, any more.

America may well turn itself around; as Yogi Berra supposedly observed, "it ain't over till it's over".

But yeah, I don't wonder any more."

Me neither.
The autodidact as total asshole
If one were to create a taxonomy of bloggers, there would be a substantial genus of assholes, species, total. Most people are occasionally assholes, or people who are assholes on one topic. But asshole-dom simply consumes some people. Their most tolerable statements involve insincere modesty and their worst drip with contempt.

This guy, for example. To save you reading time, this is a guy one of those "raving atheists" types, a fanatic at heart, even when trying not to be. He also considers himself a philosopher, hates Christianity (duh, of course) and considers communism the truth. More importantly for our purposes, he is an autodidact.

Now, anyone who is an autodidact on a specific topic risks terminal intellectual sphincter-itis. However, some self-taught subjects lend themselves to moderating influences. Say you are a self-taught plumber. You start with a how-to book. You follow the steps, and lo and behold, something didn't quite work ... ok, you take another look at the book, you take a look at your plumbing, and you apply your mind and hands and figure it out. There is a result. As you repeat these experiences, you learn new things (tested by reality) and eventually you have re-invented the wheel (i.e., plumbing). It probably took you 10 times as long as it would have had you simply asked someone with knowledge of plumbing, but alas, you'll probably miss some stuff, but at the end of the day, the toilet flushes, and you probably won't have contempt for others.

Unfortunately, not all topics lend themselves to this kind of testing. Becoming self-taught "expert" almost guarantees intellectual rectosis. Most of the humanities, for example. You do not want to teach yourself philosophy. Or political science. Or even something seemingly as harmless as English literature. That doesn't mean you can't read widely and broadly on these topics, but it's important to remember that without subjecting yourself to cross examination and lots of real-world application, it's a hobby. Lots of stuff sounds good in our minds. Lots of stuff seems perfectly logical that is complete BS. And sometimest the truth is more difficult to explain and harder to defend than BS, but the truth nonetheless passes the real-world test.

So, back to the Barefoot Bum. He's obviously well-read. He's obviously intelligent. And he's attempted to address all the obvious objections, and many of the not-so-obvious ones, to his worldview. Wouldn't want to argue with him. Chesterton warned, famously, that a madman has lost eveything but his reason. If you argue with such a person, you'll likely get the worst of it because they've carved out an internally logical worldview that's practically impermeable to outside influences. And they've got a lot more at stake at defending that worldview — after all, they're emotionally committed to it, even if it sounds like it's all about reason. Even if you called him on his contempt, he'd just probably explain why it's justified. See Alice Miller, Drama of the Gifted Child.

Plus, he's childish. Suffers temper tantrums, defaults to name-calling, that sort of thing. Tends to refuse to engage on a concrete level. He's nuts, which would be OK if he wasn't so contemptuous.

When it comes to God, for example, you can argue forever, or you can just tell someone to pray. They'll object intellectually, but to someone who has intellectually rejected God and built a philosophical foundation, well, they need to experience God directly before they get it.

So my challenge to any atheist is to pray the Lord's Prayer every evening for three weeks. Pour out your heart to God — tell Him your innermost thoughts, worries, concerns, even crimes. Confess the times you've hurt someone else. Ask for forgiveness. Pray for faith, understanding and wisdom. Hey, if you're just a meat-machine, it can't hurt. Or maybe the atheist will discover that there's more than one way of knowing, and that some of us know something he or she doesn't.

Or, as an autodidact, you can listen to no one but yourself ... and not get it.
Trembling for the country -- or at least NY Times readers
Kathryn Jean Lopez links to a series of NY Times stories. The Times' articles report the story of a young woman who's been accepted into a prestigious graduate school. She had unprotected sex with a man whom she knew to be an unfit father, and became pregnant. What should she do?

The Times' writer proceeds to write two articles on the "dilemma," and asks for reader comments. In the third article, she reveals the woman's decision.

People of course praise her and themselves for their own wisdom, both before and after her decision. She ultimately decides to rationalize the murder of her baby, and then the applause really starts because of her "thoughtfulness" and "seriousness" at pondering the decision. Woman chime in that they had abortions and got their education and now live wonderful lives and are happy and never regretted it.

Wow. It's sickening. Maybe 10 percent of the commenters noted that the baby didn't have a choice and recognized her decision for the moral monstrosity it is.

Is this who NY Times readers are? I mean, these people's consciences are seared. Do they have any idea what they're saying? To applaud another's moral seriousness in choosing to kill?

I used to have this secular mindset. I used to understand it. But as Christ has shown me more and more, I recognize it as thoroughly depraved. So much so that the commenters on that article thoroughly sickened me.

The aborted children don't go away. They still live with God. We will have to answer to them, the most innocent and helpless members of our society, who've been declared property. Your right to life, liberty and property do not come from the government, and not from your mommy. They come from God.

To paraphrase blogger Mark Shea, the more I look on things like this, the more I understand the need for the desperate measure of the crucifixion. Even with Christ, we behave like this. God help us all.