Happy Thanksgiving everyone!
Much to be thankful for.
Your friends and family also may get into the act, telling you it's okay to stretch to pay that mortgage, since your income will eventually rise and make the payments more comfortable.
Maybe, maybe not. But anyone who's been house-poor knows the emotional, psychological and financial stress of stretching too far....
Buying too much house could mean giving up other things you want: vacations, eating out, a college fund for your kids, a sufficient retirement kitty. Or it could mean ever more debt, as you borrow to try to maintain your lifestyle.
Conservatives have been fighting an uphill battle for the allegiance of the two post-Baby Boom generations for one giant reason — the one highlighted by Miss Johansson's scurrilities about President Bush:
SEX.
The perception that political conservatives are eager to return the nation to Puritan sexual mores enforced by law has a lot of otherwise sensible people too badly spooked ever to pull the Republican lever....
Our small coterie of "party conservatives" such as P. J. O'Rourke and the co-creators of South Park aren't nearly enough to countervail the leftist media's promotion of [cameras in the bedroom] nightmare....
According to the most recent census data, 74% of Americans self-identify as Christian. No doubt the majority of us are at least troubled by the rash of contraceptive abortions. God knows ... But other surveys seem to indicate that the fraction of us eager to ban abortion completely is a small minority — a minority, incidentally, of which I am not part. As for the reintroduction of laws against "fornication" (sex between unmarried persons), "vice" (sexual acts other than standard genital intercourse), and contraception, perhaps five percent of Americans would support such an initiative — and not because the rest of us are hypocrites who fear that we'd be [haled] into court to answer for our own sins.
We've simply accepted that sex between consenting adults is not a fit subject for legislation.
[...] [T]he truly stupendous irony of it all, that sex is the only subject on which the Left even nods to individual freedom, is completely drowned by the cacophony.
I submit that sex is the field upon which conservatives have their toughest row to hoe. We'd bloody well better get to work on it. In particular, we'd better think hard about how to separate our political posture from our personal convictions about the morality of private sexual acts, and in such a fashion that the Left and its Old Media allies can no longer deceive the public about the cleavage.
Wars are won by destroying the enemy's will to fight. A nation is never really beaten until it sells its women.
The French sold their women to the German occupiers in 1940, and the Germans and Japanese sold their women to the Americans after World War II. The women of the former Soviet Union are still selling themselves in huge numbers. Hundreds of thousands of female Ukrainian "tourists" entered Germany after the then-foreign minister Joschka Fischer loosened visa standards.
in 1999. That helps explain why Ukraine has the world's fastest rate of population decline. On a smaller scale, trafficking in Iranian women explains Iran's predicament.
In short, while the Islamists get bolder and crazier, we become more timid and all too rational, quibbling over this terrorist's affinities and that militia's particular grievances--in hopes of cutting some magical deal with an imaginary moderate imam or nonexistent reasonable militia chief or Middle East dictator.
Well beyond us now is any overarching Churchillian vision of our enemies. We lack the practical understanding of an FDR that all of these Islamists loathe us far more than they despise each other. Their infighting, after all, is like the transitory bickering of thieves over the division of loot that always pales before their shared hatred of the targeted bank owner.
So we are at a crossroads of all places in Iraq. The war there has metamorphosized from a successful effort to remove a mass-murdering dictator into the frontlines of the entire struggle between Islamic radicalism and Western liberality. If we withdraw before the elected government stabilizes, the consequences won't just be the loss of the perceptions of power, but perhaps the loss of real power. What follows won't be the impression that we are weak, but the fact that we are--as we convince ourselves we cannot win against such horrific enemies, and so should never again try.
That stumble will send a shudder throughout the so-called West that will be felt worldwide. It will insidiously show that the premodern world proved the master of the postmodern, as al Qaeda's Alfred Rosenberg, the pudgy Dr. Zawahiri, boasted all along--whose followers will not be happy with a successful defense when they think they can go back on an even more successful offense. [Emphasis mine.]