Spiritual Stuff
1. When things go badly, the spiritual weapons of praise and gratitude are at their highest possible strength. Every time things have really gone in the crapper, I've remind myself that it's the perfect time to praise God, because never will the praise and gratitude be less tainted by selfishness, vanity or other questionable motives. One winter evening about eight years ago I was walking up Broad Street, walking from West Philadelphia to Temple University, and I hadn't had lunch or dinner, and I didn't have any money for dinner, or money for the subway, and I think I was even out of cigarettes, but I had to go to a night class. As I walked it started to rain, kind of a freezing rain, and I was soaked through before I knew it. I praised God, and though I was cold, I realized that it was exactly the right thing to do. Life was taking a giant whiz on Bill, and by praising God I felt I'd passed the test. Never was the praise as sincere, either. When I got to class, I was over my self-pity, and my pride: I borrowed money for a subway, dinner and cigarettes from a classmate and went home. (I think I managed all that for $10.) I slept fine that night.
2. When you've been hurt or injured, the most effective spiritual weapon is to pray for the person who caused the injury. Evil has no defense when you pray for your enemies and for those who hurt you. The best it can hope for is to turn you from your prayers. And it will try. You will hear compelling justifications for your anger, resentment, bitterness or hate. You may even be right. But the strange nature of spiritual health requires you to set all that aside and pray for the wicked and your enemy. I guess I'm in arrears on this issue. Probably should start by praying for our nation's enemies.
3. Don't forget the sacraments. God is present in them. Confession. The Eucharist. Anointing of the sick. God is present in each of them. The power of the sacraments always amaze me. I'm not sure why I stay away from them for so long. Probably just rebellion in my heart. I don't know why I need to put down that rebellion so often, either. Well, yes I do. I rebel because I'm stiff-necked and don't want God telling me what to do when I want something. That is, until I screw up and want God to put everything back together again.
4. Ninety percent of all mental problems could be solved with $20,000. Go ahead, imagine your problem. Now add $20,000 to the situation. See what I mean? You feel better already. Now go make the $20k and you're set. How's that for facile? There's a point in there somewhere but I'll leave that as an exercise for the reader.
5. Most of the rest of problems require prayer, faith, hope and love. If $20,000 won't solve it [or you don't have it], prayer, faith, hope and love will likely help you change it or make peace with not changing. If that doesn't work, you need to seek out a professional counselor or otherwise find appropriate support. [Good luck — most counselors aren't very good.]
6. Prayer works wonders. Daily prayer with your significant other, your friends or your family, even five minutes a day, probably will do more for your life's quality than anything else. The important thing is coming into the presence of God, together, on a regular basis. You'd be surprised how much of the time the answer to what you're looking for is that simple: Just regular prayer. Then God takes care of the rest. My most peaceful periods of my life were when I shared a prayer discipline with another person.
That's all for tonight.
May the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the glorious Father, be with you always.